Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Family Update

  Our family has been doing EXTREMELY well! My children are happy and healthy toddlers that love each other and the Lord. On the 22nd we had a birthday party for Stephie at a local bowling alley (the children used the duck pin balls and lanes). A couple families from our church as well as my own family joined us in celebrating Stephie's official entrance into toddler hood. : ) It was a fun time and there was nothing bitter sweet about it (you'll have to read my previous posts)! We bowled, the girls decorated princess mirrors, ate pizza, and enjoyed sharing fellowship while celebrating our Stephie Belle! After Stephie's birthday party, we all went to one of the children that attended Stephie's b-day celebration birthday party. The little boy and Stephie share the same birthday 5/23, and both had their parties on the 22nd. On the 23rd we went to a "U Pick Flowers" place and let Stephie pick out her own bouquet of flowers which is currently filling the house with beautiful fragrance. We had so much fun on Saturday and Sunday! Mark and I even had a little bowling match against my brother and his fiancé. Of course, Mark and I won! : ) But, the funny thing is that Matthew (my brother) and I had tie scores, 91. Lol. There is nothing better than celebrating with those you care about!
  Rene is doing VERY well with her school work! She is currently doing addition (may I remind you that she is only 3 years old!!!). She is counting up to fifteen, and can identify most shapes, and basically every color! I am so grateful to God for giving Mark and I such a beautiful, brilliant little girl! ... Stephie has entered the world of terrific twos. She is so funny. One minute she's mischievous and as silly as silly can be, and the next she's a perfect, sweet little princess. Stephie loves life, and is full of it!... Mark and I have been walking hand in hand towards the Lord, and have put a lot of time and love into our children as well as our relationship with each other and the Lord. There are many big changes in our future, that we are excitingly looking forward to. Two of the biggest blessings the Lord has bestowed upon Mark and I in the past couple of months are peace, and contentment... We've enjoyed doing many things as a family including going to the beach, and hanging out by the water while feeding the ducks. The simple pleasures in our lives have been the greatest, and we look forward to them each and every day.
(Note:  If you are new to my blog, but know me and my family you may be confused about the children's names.  I do not use my children's actual names in my posts for safety reasons.)

John 14:27
Mark 12:31

Cross Roads

 

  The Lord has placed my family at a cross road. We can either give him our ALL, or not. Some people may look at our family, and sacrifices we've made for the Lord, and to keep our hearts and minds pure and think "What else can you give Him?" A lot of people look at our disapproval of cable television as "odd", or "strange", and think that we are down right "weirdos." However, we know in our hearts that our decision is right. We also know in our hearts that having the Lord as a constant topic of conversation is right, as is listening primarily to Christian music... Up until recently I've thought that I have given the Lord my all by doing all of those things for Him. However, due to current convictions I see that I was wrong. And, as I've said my family is at a cross road. We can either say "We've given the Lord enough", or we can take another leap and get "stranger" to most of society. I'm sure no one knows what I'm talking about at the moment, and this most likely sounds like I'm speaking gibberish. So, I will let out a little piece of my heart and let you in on my current convictions. First, I see error in the ways I've clothed myself and my children in the past. Secondly, my husband has experienced convictions about working on Sundays. Therefore, in the near future he will drop his Sunday pay in order to serve the Lord. Third, the Lord has put it in Mark and my heart to have more children way sooner than we thought we would. Fourth, I've started discipline and reward charts in my kitchen for not only my children, but also for Mark and myself (We give each other stars, hearts, and crosses according to how we've behaved and followed the Lord). Fifth, I believe that I am suppose to listen to my husband now more than ever before. Sixth, I see error in some of the books I've read from a Christian author, and movies I've seen (nothing bad from a worldly stand point, but absolutely horrible from where I now stand). The Lord wants me and my family to honor Him with not only our sacrifices but our lives, our entire heart, our ears, and our eyes. We are to not join in worldly activities that do not include Him, and we are to incorporate Him in everything we do every minute of every day. I know this, and it's my honor to serve Him in these ways... But, at the same time it's scary to think of how much of an "outcast" that could make us to the rest of the world. One of my prayers have been for the Lord to send a like minded family our way. It would be so nice to know a Christian family that has gone through similar convictions and that disapproves of a lot of the same, or similar, worldly activities that we do ...


I pray for the Lord to give my husband and I guidance as we raise our children so that they will grow into loving adults that will serve the Lord. I pray that the Lord will have patience with me as I learn to further obey my husband. I pray that my family will be able to touch the hearts of people regardless if they think us to be "strange" or not. I also pray that the Lord will forgive me as I stagger at this cross roads. I know I will follow the path the Lord has chosen for me. It's just taking me a little while to get there... However, one small step at a time my family will go down a new path, and everyone around us will see big changes. So, lastly I pray that you will not think ill of us for following this path, and know that we are simply doing what the Lord has asked of us. We love you all very much! And, we hope that you too will listen to your personal convictions and do whatever the Lord asks of you.
 
God Bless!

Proverbs 3:5
John 14:27
Luke 14:25-35

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Precious Moments

Wow... It's hard to believe that I have not signed onto my blog in over two months! I've been so engrossed in each and every one of my children’s' precious moments that I hardly get online anymore. In fact the only reasons I've been online in the past two months have been for my children. I have logged on numerous times for Stephie's up coming birthday party. She will be two years old, and the thought of her turning two is very bitter sweet.. I am very into birthdays! To me a birthday is way more than a celebration of another year passing. A birthday is a celebration of the life that God has given, and of all the mile stones achieved that year. My children's birthdays are always joyful, yet a bit sad for me. While I'm thrilled with their lives, their achievements, and beautiful hearts, I'm also sad that they are no longer my little babies waddling around the house while babbling. Of course this sadness always fades. God has blessed Mark and I with the most joyous gifts, our children. And, I know in my heart that God will bless us with more little ones. So, as my beautiful daughters grow and flourish there is peace in knowing that I have not nursed my last baby... Aren't children such a blessing? I could not imagine my life without my little ones! The girls and I spent Sunday afternoon together at a local park by the water. It was so beautiful and peaceful. The girls talked about their "mermaid sightings" as I enjoyed the cool breezes coming up from the water. I am always amazed by my children's imagination, and creativity. The other day we painted animal shaped ceramic magnets. Stephie and Rene's magnets were SO beautiful! In fact both of their magnets looked better than mine! ... Anyway, so I've just been enjoying life too much to be online. However, this blog still is important to me. I feel that it is very important to tell our personal testimonies. Therefore, I will continue to occasionally write a post. In fact, after my children's nap I will write another post.

I hope that you will take the time out to sit back, relax, and enjoy all the blessings around you. Perhaps you do not have children, but have friends, or family... Take some time out and enjoy the loved ones around you. We can not stop the clock from ticking, and with each passing second not spent with a loved one, we loose out on a precious moment.

God Bless and may you have millions of precious moments!

Pslam 118:24
Ecclesiastes 3: 1-8
Pslam 127:3

Monday, March 1, 2010

Day 39 & 40: Pizza, Movie, and Church Membership

Note: I have a few posts to write, so I'll have to edit them later.

On Saturday February 20th my mom watched the children while Mark and I met with our Pastor at a local pizzeria. I had set up the meeting in order to talk with the Pastor about Mark and I becoming members of the church. I have to admit that I was a bit nervous before hand. Luckily Mark and I arrived before Pastor B. did. I was able to calm my nerves while waiting for his arrival. Our very casual get together over pizza went well. I voiced my concerns, asked questions, and told Pastor B. a little more about my family. Before the get together I wasn't 100% sure if the church was for us... The church has a school on it's grounds. This is initially what drew me to the church. I spoke with Mark about the school and he said that he had heard good things about the school, and the church. So, on Easter of last year we went to the church for the first time. Although I didn't feel surrounded by the Holy Spirit as I had when entering other churches, I felt it through the words spoken by the Pastor that day. This was new for me. Never had I been "hit" with the words spoken by a preacher, or a priest. I have been to many different churches through out my life. I've been to Catholic churches (my paternal grandmother is Catholic and Mark and I took RCIA classes), Presbyterian, Methodist, Evangelical, and First Assembly churches. I'd have to say that First Assemblies had always been my church of choice BEFORE entering a Baptist church last Easter. There has been no greater harmony that has flowed through my heart, and moved me in such a way as the music of a First Assembly of God church has been able to. I LOVE worship music. In fact, I do not really listen to music that does not worship or talk about God. I love music that fills my soul and brings me to that peak of not being able to reach high enough, jump far enough, get close enough to the Lord. However, I do the same worshipping in my car as I've done in the First Assembly church. What was missing in my life was the word of God! A relationship with Him is just as important to me as His word. Although, I've read the bible at home, It's much different to have the words preached to you. The First Assembly church that I went to preached the Word, but not the way that Pastor B. does!..I have found the same harmony in the words that fill my mind, ears, heart, and soul every Sunday spoken by our new Pastor that I've found through my beloved worship music. This is a rarity, and that on top of our get together with Pastor B. moved me to become a member of a church for the first time that Sunday morning.

After meeting with the Pastor Mark and I went to the movie theater. I read the book by Nicholas Sparks, Dear John. I was so moved by the story that I asked Mark to read it, which he did. And, he actually liked it. He of course liked it for different reasons than I did. Mark was more touched by the relationship between the main character and the father as well the things the main male character went through for love. I was touched by the love story, and feminine aspects of the book. Anyway, so we saw the movie "Dear John." First, I'd like to say that the movie is NOTHING like the book! There were NO references to God in the movie! I was upset about this. In the book, Savannah, is a "great" person. She does volunteer activities, gives people chances, and does not judge people (among many other good attributes) BUT she contributes everything she does to the Lord. She more of less knows that all the good things about her come from the Lord. In the movie she is still a "great" person. However, there is no explanation for why she does volunteer activities. In the movie she is just a person that does good things. The only reason I picked up the book was because I knew that it contained Christian elements. So, I assumed that the movie would too. I'm happy that my husband and I spent some time together away from the children, and the house. However, I was not that pleased with the movie we saw. After the movie we went home, ate more pizza, and spent a little time with the children.

The next day I woke up bright and early. I dropped Mark off at work, got the children and myself dressed for church and then drove about an hour to pick up a dear old friend. I will call my friend "Luke". I have known Luke for about ten years. I went to school with him in the eighth grade. Anyway, the Lord has called upon me to be involved in certain people's lives. These people, I try to bring them closer to the Lord. I am not a perfect person at all! However, I do have a fire inside me that strives for perfection. I will never in my life achieve this. No one will. But, I will always seek it, I will always seek the Lord. I love using this fire to set others on fire. The number one thing, to me, is to ensure that as many people as possible experience eternal life, and salvation. I am not a preacher. The only Biblical schooling I've had was from my Christian high school. However, I do have a bible, and that fire in my heart. And, I've found that together they can lead people to church or/and to eternal salvation. This is NOT something that I'm "good at". This is a GIFT that I've been given. My speech is not elegant, and I do not have all the answers. But, I've been told that people "see something in me", and I guess that is what leads them to Him. I pray that this gift never leaves me. I pray that He never leaves me, and continues to be a guiding light in my life.

On Sunday Luke came to church and got to see Mark and I become members of it. This was an emotional time for me. And, it was hard for me to sit still. I felt as if I should have collapsed to my knees with my arms out in front of me on the floor. I felt as if I should have gotten as close to the floor as possible and praise the Lord for all He was doing that day! But, I didn't. Instead I was restless in my seat with watery eyes.

The Lord was good to me on February 20th and 21st. These days were great days because of Him. I pray that all who read this are inspired in some way. I hope my life inspires people to get closer to the Lord.

God Bless and have a extraordinary day!

Locks of Love helps disadvantaged children suffering from medical hair loss

Locks of Love helps disadvantaged children suffering from medical hair loss

Day 31: Locks of Love


I'm not sure when or how I first came upon Locks of Love. However, I am sure that I attempted to grow my hair out for this great cause for about nine years. I let my hair get to the middle of my back countless number of times before "getting sick of it", and chopping it off. The most memorable occasion of chopping off the hair I was growing out for Locks of Love was when I was about eight months pregnant with Rene. My hair gets abnormally thick when I am pregnant.  And, I was irritable, and frustrated with the fact that my hair had gotten so out of control.  I felt as if I had a horse's main growing down my back. It was VERY long. In fact it many have been long enough to donate. However, I did not donate it because I didn't want to be walking around with a bob when I felt as if my head looked like a giant water melon. So, I selfishly got my hair cut to my shoulders, and threw away about six inches of hair.

FINALLY a couple weeks ago I got 10 1/2 inches of hair cut off of my head to donate. I went through many stressful bad hair days to achieve this. So, I was very pleased with myself for finally, FINALLY, accomplishing something I had set out to do so many years ago!

At church I learned of a woman who does this A LOT! I admire her patients, and selflessness. I pray that the Lord will give me her patients, and selflessness so that I may be able to donate my hair several more times through out my life.
Note:  Although I've said that I'm "pleased with myself" I acknoledge that this would not have been possible for me without Christ.  Without Him I would have grown more impatient and would have chopped it off much sooner. 



Friday, February 19, 2010

Days 26-38: Blessed Life

Tonight, my husband made me cry... Tonight, he presented me with a card filled with beautiful words of love, and appreciation. He gave me this card, along with a mini version of the book Chicken Soup for the Christian Woman's Soul, just because he loves me. February 19th is not a holiday, nor is it a date that displays any meaning of importance to our family... It's just another day that he loves me, and decided to show me that love in his own way. And, I do feel very loved by him. Why do little gestures such as a card touch us so deeply? Why can a card with simple words bring tears to my eyes? It's because I read the words with a soft heart, and know, honestly know, that the words are truthful...


I apologize for my lack of posts these past two weeks. The Lord's work comes first, so I have been spending my time and energy on other things. A lot has happened since my last post... I've been growing my hair out for three years with the intention of donating it to Locks of Love. And, I finally accomplished doing so last Saturday. The GLA donations still have not been sent out because I still have two pick ups. All of the recent snow showers delayed my pick ups, so I missed the Feb. 15 deadline. Which, I was upset about, but figured that God had a purpose for it. Anyway, they will ship out again to Haiti in the (hopefully) near future, and when GLA does so they will have four big boxes from the loving people around my community... Let's see...I'm trying to remember everything that has happened over the last two weeks. I do so many noteworthy things every day that it's hard to remember it all... I've basically been following every little path that God turns me to. He holds my hand, and shines the light when it's dark. This has made it very easy to guide people to Him. It's easy guiding people His way when He's telling me what to say. I have something pretty amazing planned for Sunday that involves a very dear friend of mine. The Lord is a guiding light in that and all of my relationships, and I just can not praise the Lord enough for the things He's been doing in my life! I'm always so happy! My children are amazing, and SO smart! I've been home schooling Rene, and I don't think anyone would believe how high her comprehension level is! She's capable of first grade work, and she's only three. A friend of mine contributes it to me staying home with her and the one-on-one she gets with me, and I'd have to agree that it may have something to do with it. However, I contribute her brilliance to the Lord. Other than my children, my husband loves me, I'm building great friendships, and I'm making a difference in the world, one person, one organization at a time... If that's not living life to the fullest, then what is? I had an awesome Valentine's day! My husband set up a little party for the girls and I complete with streamers and balloons, and the girls and I had fun enjoying our party... What else could one ask for? Do I live a great life, or what? And, it's all because of the Lord! I lived a blessed life because of His love. He loves me, and He loves you. I hope all who read this truly know that they are loved! You may wonder how you can be loved without feeling loved... If you want to experience true love, just ask for it! Ask the Lord to come into your heart, and live the blessed life! You know, my husband didn't always write me cards that made me cry... Mark wasn't always the man that he is today... He's become, and is becoming a great man because he walks with Christ... If you are lonely, sad, feel unloved, or unlovable, then please, right here, right now... Say this simple prayer...

Dear Lord,

I want to feel your love. I want to know the Lord that I've heard so much about. I want to know you. I want to give you my heart. Lord, I know I have sinned. I am a sinner. Please forgive me, and bless me with your love, with a relationship with you. Thank you Lord.

Amen

Say that prayer, or make up your own.. Speak from your heart, and talk to the God that created you in His image. Pray to the God that LOVES you and wants you to love Him. The way I see it is if you are lonely, or sad, or have any trouble in your life that you have not been able to overcome yourself, then you have nothing to loose by going to the Lord. You have nothing to loose, but everything to gain. Let the Lord ease your worries and fears.  Let Him comfort you... With Him you will thirst no more!... Be His. Hear His truthful, honest words... Let Him soften your heart...

I hope this has touched someone's heart. If you are that person, then feel free to leave me a comment, or a e-mail. Feel free to ask me any questions that you may have about salvation, or the Lord's love.

God bless you, and have an extraordinary night!

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Days 21-25: Snowed In

Mark had an interview with a new company that offered more advancement opportunities, and a bigger pay check, scheduled for Wednesday. However, on Tuesday night he decided to "not chase money" as his family did. I was surprised that Mark had decided to not work for the company. Deep down I didn't want him to work for them, but I figured it wasn't up for me to decide. So, I left it in God's hands and I prayed that Mark would let God guide him in making the decision. After Mark had made his decision to not go to Virginia, we talked for a little while. While talking we both agreed that we love the area in which we currently reside, and that this is where we want to raise our children. The company that was interested in him is based in Virginia, and they wanted him to work in Columbia Maryland. It would have been a big move for us, and I'm happy to not be making it.

I've been extremely tired the past few days. So, having Mark off from work on Tuesday, and Wednesday because of the interview, was nice. He helped out A LOT around the house, and he folded a lot of clothes! In fact on Wednesday I got to spend some one on one time with Rene. She and I made cards for Sinny and Ardjan, and took a trip to the post office, and into town. It was so relaxing, and laid back! She and I stopped at McDonald's to pick up hot fudge sundaes to bring back home and enjoy with Stephie and Daddy. We also stopped by a RedBox and picked up "Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs."

The hot fudge sundaes we ordered turned out to be caramel sundaes. It was the first time I ate a caramel sundae (I'm a chocolate lover, so I've always passed on the caramel sundaes) but I loved it! We enjoyed the sundaes while watching the movie. It was a nice night, until it was time for Rene to go to bed. Apparently the animated movie that showed various foods falling from the sky scarred her, so she couldn't go to sleep. She eventually nodded off while cuddling with daddy on the couch with Disney's The Aristocats softly playing in the background.

Thursday is a bit of a blur to me. Mark worked somewhere around ten or eleven hours that day. So, it was just the children and I all day. Mark and I were both very tired by the end of the night. The only thing I really remember doing is cooking psari plaki (an awesome baked fish dish) for the first time, for dinner that night. I am big into Greek foods and cooking. I prefer Greek food to most American food. And, I've been experimenting with the recipes in a Greek cook book that my mom gave me. I will write the recipe for Thursday night's dinner at the bottom of this post.

Mark had to be at work at 5:30am on Friday. So, the girls and I did not take him to work that morning. It would have been way too early for them. Instead Mark went off to work and came home at 9:30am to pick us up for grocery shopping. The girls and I dropped Mark back off at work, and then grabbed a bite to eat. After our lunch, we went grocery shopping. The grocery store was out of a lot of the things that we buy due to frantic customers stocking up for the impending snow storm, but we made due. On our way back home after grocery shopping we stopped at McDonald's. I do not like McDonald's, actually I do not like fast food. However, we always stop at a fast food restaurant on grocery day because of time and convenience. Anyway, the McDonald's was insanely busy. I ended up cutting off a car in fear that I would be stuck in the parking lot for all eternity, unable to neither get out of it or order food. So, I cut off what ended up to be a elderly couple in order to get in the backed up line of vehicles waiting to place their orders. I felt so bad about this that when I paid for my order I told the McDonald's cashier that I was going to take care of the bill for the car directly behind us. As I pulled up to the second drive thru window, the people behind me tried to pay for their food at the first window. Through my rear view mirror I saw the cashier point to my vehicle. So, I waved to the people in the red car behind me, and the elderly man waved back. They seemed to be appreciative. And, I felt better about cutting them off. A while ago, someone had done this for me at a Starbuck's drive- thru. I was so appreciative that a stranger had paid for my order that I wanted to do the same for someone. Friday, I was given the perfect opportunity, and I felt GREAT afterwards!

It began to snow on Friday around 1:00, and didn't let up until about an hour ago, Saturday at around 4:00pm. We had a TON of snow where we live! My husband made the comment that if we dropped one of our daughters into the snow that we would never be able to find them again. Mark is originally from Idaho, and he said that he has never seen this much snow from one storm in his life. So, we've been snowed in all day. Our neighbor called to tell us about a news story she heard that advised people to keep their heaters free of snow due to the threats of carbon monoxide poisoning. So, he has been out several times today to clear our heater of snow. Other than that it has been a pretty lazy day. Mark and I have done a lot of reading. In fact the reason I haven't written a post in a while is because I've been stuck on a book written by Debbe Magnusen titled "Don't Abandon Your Baby." Anyone that knows me (and probably even those that do not) knows that I love to get involved with causes that I support. One such cause is the Pro-Life movement. Debbe Magnusen is the founder of an organization called Project Cuddles.                                                                                           (Early Sat. Look at how high the snow is on Mark's leg)

Project cuddles in a organization that helps prevent babies from being abandoned from all over the nation. Basically Debbe and the Project Cuddles volunteers help out scared or confused woman in their time of crisis. To find out more about Project Cuddles please go to www.projectcuddle.org . Anyway, so through their website I came across her book. I am almost done reading the book. It has been a great light into the hearts of the would-be baby abandoning mothers. I never quite understood why a mother would abandon her baby until reading this book. Now, I understand that motherhood isn't for everyone. Some people are not meant to have children, and just because a baby grows in a woman's body, doesn't mean that, that baby truly belongs to her. Because while that baby is growing in a woman's body that does not want it, it is growing in the heart of a different woman that does want it. A lot of times getting pregnant, and giving a baby up for adoption enriches the birth mother's life... God works in mysterious ways. And, I would like to get involved with Project Cuddles and help turn would be tragedies into hope, and blessings.

The past few days have been busy, yet relaxing at the same time. As always, life's great and extraordinary, no matter what storm (natural or other wise) is thrown my way. With God, nothing is as it seems... With God, would be tragedies are blessings. With God, we are able to see clearly and not let money fog our view. With God we are able to live an extraordinary life! 
 
                        Sunday morning.  All the snow swallowed our car!                               Mid Sat.  The girls' castle climber in the snow. 


Psari Plaki

1 lb fish fillets (I used flounder)
1 tablespoon chopped parsley (I used oregano for more flavor!)
1 tablespoon lemon juice (I squeezed 1/4 of a lemon)
3/4 teaspoon seasoned salt
3 tablespoons olive oil (I never go by the directions, and used much more)
1 medium onion, thinly sliced
1 clove garlic, minced
1 large tomato, thinly sliced
lemon wedges (the book says 3, I used more)
2 tablespoons white wine

The book says to arrange the fish in an 8 or 9 in square baking dish.  However, I found this to be WAY too small and I put the fish in a 12 x 8 in dish.  (Yes, I actually have a 12 x 8, it's not a 9 x 13)  Sprinkle with parsley (oregano), lemon juice, and salt.
Heat the oil in a small skillet and fry the onion and garlic until limp.
Top the fish with the onion mixture, including the oil from the skillet.
Arrange the tomatoes on top of the onion mixture, then place the lemon slices between the tomato slices.  Pour the wine over all and bake at 350 degrees for 30 to 35 minutes or until the fish flakes with a fork. 

Serve with Braised Potatoes (see my post titled Greek Food, Drinking, and Dancing)

Thursday night I served this with fresh green beans, and orzo mixed with fresh tomatoes, oregano, and olive oil. 

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Day 20 & 21: God's Littlest Angels

The news of the January 12th earthquake in Haiti made my heart cry... While praying that night, on the evening of Haiti's most catastrophic natural disaster to date, Christ called upon me to not just cry for Haiti, but to get involved in their recovery.  I had no idea what to do, or what this meant.  All I kept hearing was "go."  I felt the Lord telling me to "go" to Haiti. I asked the Lord, "What is this suppose to mean?" and "How am I suppose to do this?"  My answer?  "The children."  So, the first thing I did (the first thing I always do) I logged onto the internet and went straight to Google.  If you type "haiti children go" into the search engine at http://www.google.com/ you will come across a link for God's Littlest Angels.  The direct URL is http://www.glahaiti.org/ .  This link jumped right off of the google search result page and into the center of my heart.  So, I clicked on the link, and as I read various articles from the site I became overwhelmingly involved with it's contents...

God's Littlest Angels is a Haitian orphanage located in the mountains above Petion-Ville, which is close to the village of Femathe. GLA is a non-profitable, non-denominational Christian organization.  It was founded on December 25 1994 when a one pound fifteen ounce baby was born in a mission hospital in Haiti. This is from their website "With the parents' permission, Dixie took the baby home. John put his skills to work making an incubator out of a cardboard box and a heating pad. At the time, Dixie didn't have access to IV supplies, so she kept the baby alive by feeding her with an eye dropper every 2 hours. Within 4 days, she was drinking from a doll bottle. Angel Noël survived and went home to her parents in April of 1995. She is now in grade school and is very bright and outgoing.
God continued to send babies in need of medical support. In November 1995, John and Dixie followed God's call to leave the mission they were working with and moved into the community to work with Haitian families and their infants.
Haiti's health care is underdeveloped and has few facilities to care for premature infants. Haiti has the highest infant mortality rate in the Western Hemisphere. Out of all the infants who die in their first year, 60 percent die in their first month of life. There is no other program in Haiti that focuses on these newborn babies." 

Today God's Littlest Angels is much more than just a facility for premature babies.  They are now a fully functional orphanage, and home to children of all ages... I contacted GLA via e-mail and a woman by the name of Jean Bell from the orphanage replied to me.  Through e-mails I found out that there's many items that not only the orphanage, but the surrounding community needs... So, that brings me to the adventures of days twenty and twenty one of my journey...                                                                                                      (Photo from the GLA site)

I decided to send a few donations to GLA.  These donations must be sent to their Colorado office.  They hope to send a shipment off to Haiti on the fifteenth of February.  Therefore, I don't have that much time to collect and ship out the donations.  I started my collection of donations at my Church.  I asked the Pastor to ask the congregation for their help which he did last Wednesday.  On the day of our Baptism I was caught off guard when a woman said that she "had a few things" for me.  I then realized that the things were for GLA.  I was thrilled to be accepting the first donations to go off to GLA.  However, I was also worried that I may not receive that many donations by Feb.9.  So, with the advice of a kind woman I spoke with at church that day, I e-mail another woman who does a mail forwarding to the church members... This however is only the tip of the iceberg!

On Monday I spent the entire day on the phone calling local dentist offices. I told them what I was doing and asked them if they had any extra tooth brushes, or tooth paste that they would like to donate.  I had many misses with several offices saying that they had  just donated tooth brushes to Iraq.  But, to my delight I got two hits.  Also, on Tuesday I did an online course for the Red Cross, and registered for various classes. 

Today Mark was off from work, so we picked up a HUGE box from one of the dentist offices in town.  We also stopped at Dunkin Doughnuts where we picked up a few doughnut holes, coffee, milk, and a bagel.  We then drove down to the water and attempted to feed the ducks the bagel.  The ducks didn't eat that much of the bagel because of the seagulls aggressiveness.  Mark, the children, and I also took a few photos that we are going to send to our sponsor children.  It was COLD by the water, so we didn't stay long.  After our little outing we went to Wal-Mart where we bought Stephie her first "big kid" potty and pull-ups.  She was THRILLED to have her very own potty!  The girls and I also picked out a small gift for Sinny while Mark picked out a hot wheels car for Ardjan.

When we got home the girls each sat on their own potty where to my surprise they BOTH tinkled in the potty!  I was so happy with Stephie that I must have given her a million hugs and kisses. Afterwards, they both (although Rene has been potty trained for some time I couldn't exclude her from Stephie's treat)got a treat of yogurt covered raisins for being such big girls and using the potty. 

The past couple of days have been awesome, and so easy!  When you leave your life in God's hands it all just flows together so smoothly!  There is nothing that I can't do with God!  With him I find myself doing incredible things!  I love who I am and I love my life!  I love who my children are becoming!  I love the way my family works together!  I have a sign hanging in my living room that says "When God is in your heart... Love is in your home."  And, I feel that is why I'm so happy with things in my life... Because I have an extraordinary love in my heart and home that only He can provide! 

God Bless, and have a safe, extraordinary night!

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Sunday, January 31, 2010

Day 19 : Together We Walk, Together We Stand, Together We Were Baptized

Something miraculous happened to me while traveling to church on a cold Sunday night... My family became stranded on the side of the road.  At least that's what I thought at the time.  This "mishap" was actually the beginning of a series of tests, and events that would happen in my life to bring me closer to my father in heaven.  See, we were never really "stranded" because the Lord was at our side.  We were never alone, or without help.  He was always there... He IS always there, guiding us, helping us along each and every day to fulfill His purpose for our lives. 

Today my husband and I took another step forward onto the golden pathway that God has carefully constructed for us.  Today Mark and I walked together in Christ.  Today we made a commitment, dare I say, stronger than that of marriage.  We did something more symbolic than the exchanging of wedding bands... We were baptized together... Mark and I were both baptized as young adults.  In fact we both dedicated our lives to Christ around the same age. We were both baptized around the age of fifteen.  However, when we were baptized we were not immersed in water.  Mark and I both were only sprinkled.  The church that we are attending, and that we are becoming members of is a Baptist church... And, the Baptists do not recognize being sprinkled as being baptized.  Therefore, Mark and I had to get baptized again in order to join the church. 

Although, I didn't understand why I had to get baptized again, I did it anyway.  I thought to myself "Hey, I wonder how many people can say that they were baptized twice?" I didn't really think that anything special would happen upon this baptism because I was already saved.  And, the Holy Spirit already lives within me.. Boy was I wrong! 

At the end of today's church service the Pastor called us to the alter (invitation)...As I walked up the aisle leading to the alter I felt as if I were going to cry.  But, fought back the tears, and put a smile on my face.  My mind was blank as I did a series of things that eventually led me to a small stair case across from my husband with a pool of water separating us.  The first thing I did was I undressed and put on some sort of blue, water proof, zip up suite. While putting on the vinyl suite a very nice woman guided me through the actual baptism process... The Pastor will put your hand over your mouth, bend your knees, etc... But, her words didn't quite prepare me for what happened.  The Pastor asked for Mark and I to come into the water at the same time.  He raised his hand and said something that I agreed to. Then within a few seconds my head and whole body was submersed in a pool of water.  It all happened so quickly that I didn't have time to think.  The only thing I really remember is having my eyes closed for a while after being risen from the water.  Next, it was Mark's turn and the Pastor dunked Mark under the water...

On our way home I was a little disappointed that my mind had been blank during the baptism and that the Holy Spirit hadn't overwhelm me as it had the first time I was baptized... This nagged at me all night until I finally called Mark into the kitchen to talk with me while I did the dishes.  He made me feel better by saying that the reason I didn't feel the same as I did the first time is because I was already saved, and that I had already been Baptized.  This made sense, I mean after all, that is what I expected to happen in the first place.  Although Mark made me feel better, I still felt like I had missed a step.  As the night progressed I read many bible verses about baptism.  And, at some point while reading the bible verses, I got it.  Suddenly I understood and recognized the missing step... I didn't repent before I was baptized.  I stopped reading, and bowed my head in prayer.  While asking God to forgive any and all sins that I may have committed between my first baptism and today's,  my body became weightless, and my heart felt like a big hot air balloon.  I suddenly felt more uplifted than I had in a while.  And, I felt as if I had more room in my heart than ever before.  Then, I realized what the true meaning of baptism was.  A baptism is a cleansing, or a rebirth.  But, you can not be cleansed of your sins unless you ask to be.  However, this particular baptism was so much more than a simple cleansing... 

Today I was baptized with my husband.  Today my husband and I ourselves were not reborn.  Today our marriage was reborn, and strengthened by the one who brought us together, Jesus Christ.  On the thirty-first day of January Mark and I not only recommitted our lives to Christ, but we also committed our marriage to Christ.  TOGETHER we walk, TOGETHER we dedicate our lives to Him.  Together we took the steps forward to committing our family to a church family.  What greater event, what greater thing, could a Christian couple possibly do than to be baptized together in a church in which God has led them to, and by a Pastor that speaks directly to their hearts every Sunday?  I don't think that anything I will, or can do, this year will top the experiences of today. 


As long as Mark and I follow the path God has made for us we will never be lost.  As long as we trust and have faith that our lives will always turn out right no matter how "hard" it may seem at times, we will never go astray.  There will be times when we don't understand why we must do something, but we have to do it anyway.  We can not see where the end of our path will lead, and we don't have to.  As long as we have faith, we don't need to understand, or see our paths... We must just walk the path in slow strides, taking one step at a time.  He will never lead us to a dead end, or leave us stranded in the dark on a cold night.  So, trust in the Lord.  I pray that you will walk the extraordinary path designed for your life, and that you will always trust in the one that loves you unconditionally.

Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.
Proverbs 3:5-6

22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 30For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Ephesians 5:22-33

Again I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.”

Matthew 18:19-20



Acts 22:16: " And now why tarriest thou? arise, and be baptized, and wash away thy sins, calling on the name of the Lord."

Acts 2:38: "Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Day 15, 16, 17: BUSY, BUSY, BUSY!

Note:  Since we've been so busy I haven't had that much time to edit my posts.  Also, since I've been so busy my posts have been lacking that zest they once had (check out older posts).  However, I'm certain that tomorrow's post will be full of life!

Our family has been so busy these past three days!... Christ has been a prevailing force in our lives, protecting us from any negative influences.  He has been a guiding light, and our great protector.  Not only has He been there for us, but He has also sent a few new friends our way... I guess to void out any of the negativity that came our way.   

Mark and I have a few exciting things coming up...You'll have to check back to see what's in store. Recently we've done so much that I can't even remember all of it.  Let's see,  on Thursday I went to another Red Cross meeting with my mother.  I guess this was our first "official" meeting.  It was exciting, and I've decided what I want to do with the Red Cross... Disaster Relief, and AFES.  AFES is basically answering phone calls from the comforts of my own home.  And, as far as being involved in Disaster Relief, I'm not 100% sure what all I will be doing.  Also, on Thursday Victoria gave Mum-Mum the heart we made for her.  After stuffing it we added a suction cup to it so that my mom could hang it on her window.  Although the suction cup fell off somewhere between the truck and my parent's front door, my mother loved it. 

Friday... Friday was interesting!  We had our first small flood.  My husband used the toilet, flushed, and left the bathroom.  Apparently the toilet kept running after Mark flushed.  This caused the water to over flow the bowl, and we had about 1/4 inch of water fill our bathroom and laundry area.  Mark, thank goodness, noticed the water before it had time to creep up the hallway.  We called a Plummer that had been here before.  He said that most likely one of the children had dropped a toy into the toilet... Long story short, Mark ended up removing the toilet and found something that was stuck in it.  It wasn't a toy... It was something that no one would believe would be able to clog a toilet!  And, I'm a little unsure as to how it was able to prevent the toilet from flushing properly.  But, Mark removed it, and it works perfectly once again.  And, of course Friday is grocery day... But, we did so much more than just grocery shopping!  Mark took half the day off from work so that we could take care of a few things that had to be dealt with immediately.  We got a lot of things done, but not everything.  Come Monday we will have it all completed, and our "ducks in a row."  

So, we've been pretty busy... And, although a lot of it has been "fun", and rewarding, I'm still looking forward to some REAL fun!  I have talked with my brother about going to play paint ball, and I've talked with my mom about going on a small boat trip on a locally famous sail boat.  Also, Mark and I have a few things that we would like to do together.  But, we've been so busy with other things, that we haven't focused on making definite plans for the "real" fun yet.  But, believe me, we'll get there, and do those things soon.  As for now we have something amazing planned for tomorrow, and I may possibly be doing something tonight that's a pretty big deal for me... So until then, live for Christ.  It's through him that my happiness is possible regardless of any obstacles that may come my way.  Learn to laugh at yourself, and what you can't control.  And, be comforted in the fact that Christ does it all for a purpose.  Sit back, relax,or go out to have fun.. No matter what your speed may be, have fun while living an extraordinary life!

God Bless!

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Day 14: The Red Cross

Tonight my mom and I had orientation for the Red Cross.  I can not even begin to express the feelings of self-esteem, of accomplishment, of inspiration, and gratitude I had while sitting in the meeting.  There is only one greater feeling in this world than the feeling that comes from the thought or action of selflessly helping someone.  And, that is the feeling of being in the loving arms of my family.  For me, the greatest joys in life come from my husband, and my children.  They fill my life with so much happiness and love.  And, I enjoy spreading that love, and comfort that my family provides me to other's that need it.  From the orientation tonight I got the feeling that the Red Cross is the perfect place to do that! 

It was so awesome that my mother was there with me tonight.  Joining an organization like the Red Cross has been one of my mom's dreams since when she was a young girl.  So, it was absolutely amazing to see her begin to fulfill her dreams later on in life.  I feel so blessed that my mother and I have so many of the same hopes and dreams.  I feel so blessed, and thank God so much for the amazing things He's doing in our lives. And, I am so proud of the both of us for nurturing the seeds planted in our hearts.  All of our hopes, and dreams come from Christ.  He planted the seeds in our hearts, and I can't wait to watched them grow and blossom.

The Last Word On My In-Laws

Supposedly my in-laws have people from all over the country reading my blog.  And, supposedly "so many people" can't believe the way I'm treating them based on what I've said in my blog.  So, first let me say that the saying "A picture is worth a thousand words" applies not only to the visual arts, but also to the written.  Writing is a form of art.  Therefore, people will draw their own conclusions from what they "see."  Also, if someone dislikes you they can twist your words, and form them to best suite themselves.  And, completely miss the point  you are making.  Now, I have to ask you what kind of person would recruit people to join them in a hate feast against someone?  If you listen to my in-laws, and truly believe what they say, then you obviously do not know them.  And, futhermore, you do not know me.  You and I have never met, or if we have it was briefly.  So, I invite you, whoever reads my blog to personally talk to me, not through the computer.  I invite you to see my face, and hear the tones in my voice... And, then draw your conclusion. 

Do not blindly follow what people say.  You do not know all the stories, and the ones you do know, you only know one side of them.  Also, do not pick apart every little thing about someone that labels themselves as "Christian".  A Christian is not a perfect person.  A Christian is a human being that has dedicated their life to Christ.  A Christian is not without sin, but they strive to be.  Do not pick apart someone to degrade them in order to make yourself look or feel better... If you need to feel good about yourself, if you are lacking something in your life... Then, I know who can help, and I invite you to meet with me to discuss salvation, and the ultimate unconditional love of the one that can lift your spirits and fulfill any void you may have in your life... Jesus Christ.

Zephaniah 3:17

The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing

Titus 1:1-2

Paul, a servant of God and an apostle of Jesus Christ for the faith of God's elect and the knowledge of the truth that leads to godliness— a faith and knowledge resting on the hope of eternal life, which God, who does not lie, promised before the beginning of time

Jeremiah 29:11-12

For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you

Jeremiah 17:7-8

But blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD whose confidence is in him. He will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit

PROVERBS 15:15

All the days of the afflicted are evil: but he that is of a merry heart hath a continual feast.

Monday, January 25, 2010

Day 13: Arts and Crafts

Note:  This post will need to be edited later.  It is late, so, I'm quickly writing it.  Enjoy.
My family does not subscribe to cable television.  I do this for censoring purposes, as well as for a sacrifice.  My two sponsor children are the monetary cost of what one would pay to have cable.  And, of course I choose them over the superficial entertainment value of cable television.  However, we do subscribe to Netflix.  This cost is SIGNIFICANTLY lower than the cost of cable, and we can choose what we would like to watch, and what we wouldn't like to watch.  The thing with cable TV is that although you can monitor what you view, you can't always monitor the inappropriate commercials that quickly pop up, or accidentally seeing something when flipping through the channels.  With Netflix I have instant streaming, plus I get movies sent to my home.. It perfectly suites my family.  Anyway, through Netflix I found a DVD titled "Art on a Shoestring."  Tonight we watched it for the first time.  In fact is was the first time I had ever watched an instructional video on how to do arts and crafts.  And, it was FUN!  After watching most of the DVD Rene and I made a stuffed heart for Valentine's day.  We then made a Valentine's card to send to Sinny in Africa.  It was so much fun that I can't wait to do another project from the DVD tomorrow!  Actually, I'm thinking of starting a pop up scrap book tomorrow.  But, we'll see, because tomorrow's an exciting day!  You'll have to check out tomorrow's blog to see what I have planned.  Although tomorrow's an excting day, what would make tomorrow perfect is if we have as nice of a day as we had today.  I think today was the first time this month that I was able to turn off the heat and open the doors.  In fact it was such a nice day that the girls and I took a long walk.  Today was such an awesome, extraordinary day!  I feel so blessed to have days like the one today!  I didn't want this to become a "mommy blog", but right now I can't resist talking about my children. Stephie and Rene really make my life so perfect!  They are my sunshine, and I miss them when they're napping, and I can't wait to see them in the morning.  Being a mother is the best, most extraordinary job that I've ever been given.  And, being a mother makes me appreciate my own mother more.  A mother's love is the greatest love on earth.  And, I love spending hours being with my children.

 Anyway, so doing a simple art and craft project can bring so much joy.  So, I encourage you to get out your scissors, sewing kit, paint brushes, whatever your media of choice may be, and create something extraordinary.  And, perhaps give it to the most extraordinary woman in your life, which in my case would be my mother!

Have a blessed and extraordinary night!

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Goals Update

Well, my goals for the year keep increasing.  There are so many things that the Lord wants me to do!  And, I am up for all the challenges He throws my way!  However, the more I'm given and the closer I get to Christ, I'm also given other challenges that I don't believe to be those from the Lord.  I'm having horrible problems with my in-laws... However, all of the problems are those of my own doing b/c I didn't listen to Mark.  My husband told me a long time ago that we were to have nothing to do with his parents.  But, I didn't listen to him, and I disobeyed his request to not talk to his parents... I like to give everyone chances upon chances.  But, the bible tells me to not be around, or spend time with people that are a bad influence, or wish to work evil against me.  See, they have issues in their lives that we do not approve of for our children to be around.  In all actuality there are things about them that we do not approve of ourselves or each other to be around. 

 1 As snow in summer, and as rain in harvest,
so honor is not seemly for a fool
2 As the bird by wandering, as the swallow by flying,
so the curse causeless shall not come.
3 A whip for the horse, a bridle for the ass,
and a rod for the fool's back.
4 Answer not a fool according to his folly,
lest thou also be like unto him.
5 Answer a fool according to his folly,
lest he be wise in his own conceit.
6 He that sendeth a message by the hand of a fool
cutteth off the feet, and drinketh damage.
7 The legs of the lame are not equal:
so is a parable in the mouth of fools.
8 As he that bindeth a stone in a sling,
so is he that giveth honor to a fool.
9 As a thorn goeth up into the hand of a drunkard,
so is a parable in the mouth of fools.
10 The great God that formed all things
both rewardeth the fool, and rewardeth transgressors.
11 As a dog returneth to his vomit, 2 Pet. 2.22
so a fool returneth to his folly.
12 Seest thou a man wise in his own conceit?
There is more hope of a fool than of him.
13 The slothful man saith, There is a lion in the way;
a lion is in the streets.
14 As the door turneth upon his hinges,
so doth the slothful upon his bed.
15 The slothful hideth his hand in his bosom;
it grieveth him to bring it again to his mouth.
16 The sluggard is wiser in his own conceit
than seven men that can render a reason.
17 He that passeth by, and meddleth with strife belonging not to him,
is like one that taketh a dog by the ears.
18 As a mad man who casteth firebrands, arrows, and death,
19 so is the man that deceiveth his neighbor,
and saith, Am not I in sport?
20 Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out:
so where there is no talebearer, the strife ceaseth.
21 As coals are to burning coals, and wood to fire;
so is a contentious man to kindle strife.
22 The words of a talebearer are as wounds,
and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly.
23 Burning lips and a wicked heart
are like a potsherd covered with silver dross.
24 He that hateth dissembleth with his lips,
and layeth up deceit within him;
25 when he speaketh fair, believe him not:
for there are seven abominations in his heart.
26 Whose hatred is covered by deceit,
his wickedness shall be showed before the whole congregation.
27 Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein:
and he that rolleth a stone, it will return upon him.
28 A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it;
and a flattering mouth worketh ruin.
Proverbs 26

Titus 2:11-12
11 For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men, 12 teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly in the present age,

1 Corinthians 5:11-13

11But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator,
or covetous, or an idolator, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.
12For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? do not ye judge them that are within?
13But them that are without God judgeth. Therefore put away from among yourselves that wicked person


1 Corinthians 6:9
9Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
10Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

Matthew 5:10-12
10 Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake,
For theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
11 “Blessed are you when they revile and persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely for My sake. 12 Rejoice and be exceedingly glad, for great is your reward in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you.

1 Corinthians 15:33
33 Do not be deceived: “Evil company corrupts good habits.”

Proverbs 13:20
20He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.

Ephesians 5:22-33
22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 30For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
—2 Corinthians 6:14

1 The king's heart is in the hand of the LORD,

as the rivers of water:
he turneth it whithersoever he will.
2 Every way of a man is right in his own eyes:
but the LORD pondereth the hearts.
3 To do justice and judgment
is more acceptable to the LORD than sacrifice.
4 A high look, and a proud heart,
and the plowing of the wicked, is sin.
5 The thoughts of the diligent tend only to plenteousness;
but of every one that is hasty only to want.
6 The getting of treasures by a lying tongue
is a vanity tossed to and fro of them that seek death.
7 The robbery of the wicked shall destroy them;
because they refuse to do judgment.
8 The way of man is froward and strange:
but as for the pure, his work is right.
9 It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop,
than with a brawling woman in a wide house.
10 The soul of the wicked desireth evil:
his neighbor findeth no favor in his eyes.
11 When the scorner is punished,
the simple is made wise:
and when the wise is instructed,
he receiveth knowledge.
12 The righteous man wisely considereth the house of the wicked:
but God overthroweth the wicked for their wickedness.
13 Whoso stoppeth his ears at the cry of the poor,
he also shall cry himself, but shall not be heard.
14 A gift in secret pacifieth anger:
and a reward in the bosom, strong wrath.
15 It is joy to the just to do judgment:
but destruction shall be to the workers of iniquity.
16 The man that wandereth out of the way of understanding
shall remain in the congregation of the dead.
17 He that loveth pleasure shall be a poor man:
he that loveth wine and oil shall not be rich.
18 The wicked shall be a ransom for the righteous,
and the transgressor for the upright.
19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness,
than with a contentious and an angry woman.
20 There is treasure to be desired and oil in the dwelling of the wise;
but a foolish man spendeth it up.
21 He that followeth after righteousness and mercy
findeth life, righteousness, and honor.
22 A wise man scaleth the city of the mighty,
and casteth down the strength of the confidence thereof.
23 Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue,
keepeth his soul from troubles.
24 Proud and haughty scorner is his name,
who dealeth in proud wrath.
25 The desire of the slothful killeth him;
for his hands refuse to labor.
26 He coveteth greedily all the day long:
but the righteous giveth and spareth not.
27 The sacrifice of the wicked is abomination:
how much more, when he bringeth it with a wicked mind?
28 A false witness shall perish:
but the man that heareth speaketh constantly.
29 A wicked man hardeneth his face:
but as for the upright, he directeth his way.
30 There is no wisdom nor understanding
nor counsel against the LORD.
31 The horse is prepared against the day of battle:
but safety is of the LORD.
Poverbs 21
Romans 13:12-14

12The night is far spent, the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armour of light.
13Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying.
14But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts thereof.
So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. Then the man said,

“This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.”Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
—Genesis 2:18, 21-24

These passages let me know that what I am doing is the right thing to do.  Sometimes it is hard to not have a relationship with a family member, but you have to do what is right for you according to God.  If nothing but evil and negativity come from a relationship... Maybe you shouldn't be in that relationship!  However, just because a relationship with someone doesn't work out doesn't mean you should ever stop loving, or praying for them...

Back to my Goals Update...
Anyway, so, I've increased my work outs... My time on the stair master, and stomach exercises.  There, obvisouly, is no change in my weight yet.  But, I'm confindent that I'll get there. 

I don't think I've gotten anymore children sponsored yet, but that's b/c I've been focused on other things.  My number one priority at the moment is listening to God.  So, all of my goals for the year will have to wait until His are finished.  However, I have accomplished one of my goals, so far since I've started this blog.  We've attended church every Sunday.

Day 11 & 12: Soup, and Prayer

Day 12:  Prayer
The closer you get to Christ the more Satan will try to bring you down.  Evil people don't want good people to succeed...  Usually when someone is determined to make other people feel bad about themselves it's so they can feel good about themselves. That's because in order to feel like they're worth something they need other people to feel less than their best. For people to Say mean things, hurt other people, and to mistreat them in any form must mean that those people are very insecure.  Do not return hurtful words with hurtful words.  These people need our prayers, not our curses. 

Satan doesn't want a saved Christian to fulfill God's plan for their life.  We as Christians will be persecuted by mean, ignorant people.  Yet, we must still love them.  For, they are just that, ignorant.  Most people know not what they are doing.  Or, they are so full of pain, and anger that they wish to bestow it on those that have found happiness, especially those who have found happiness in Christ. 

But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you (Luke 6:27-28).

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse (Romans 12:14).
We work hard with our own hands. When we are cursed, we bless; when we are persecuted, we endure it (1 Corinthians 4:12).

I had a couple firsts tonight... The Lord has given me multiple tasks.  I have to gather items for an orphanage in Haiti.  I have to witness to a very lost person.  I have to give condolences to someone that I once had a misunderstanding with.  I also have set up a monetary fund for the person that I once had a misunderstanding with.  The last thing I must do is complete the steps to joining the Red Cross... So, tonight in church I knelt down at the alter for the first time in the church that we are attending.  It takes courage to listen to Christ.  It takes courage to swallow all pride and to do what is asked of you... It takes an extraordinary person to leave their life in His hands... All Christians are extraordinary people!.. However EVERYONE has the ability to also be extraordinary.  If you have yet to give you life to Christ, I encourage you to do so now.  Jesus loves you.  He wants you to be one of His children.  Be extraordinary, and please, say this simple prayer...
 
"Dear Lord, I give my heart to you.  Please lord enter me, and fill me with your love.  I no longer want to live the life I've created for myself.  I wish to live to glorify you, and only you.  Lord, I'm a sinner.  I've sinned against you.  Please, forgive me.  Please wash away all of my sins, and purify me.... In Jesus' name I pray, Amen."

I pray that the person who gave me my second "new" experience tonight reads this post, and allows Christ to enter their heart.  Jesus loves you, and so do I.  I don't care what you say, I forgive you.  I sympathize with you.  Don't let whatever happened in your life to make you this way control you.  Let whatever it is go, and find extraordinary happiness! And this is my prayer for you...

"Dear God, please speak to the hearts of those who do and say unkind things to others.  Please touch and soften their hearts.  I know you have an amazing plan for their lives.  Please allow them to see the plan, to see you, to experience the unconditional love that only you can provide.  Please transform their lives.  With you all things are possible!  With you they can be extraordinary! Thank you, Lord.  In your name I pray, Amen."
 
Day 11: Soup
 
I've never been a fan of canned foods.  I prefer fresh, or frozen groceries.  My family eats only fresh fruits, and a combination of fresh and frozen vegetables.  And, I never buy any kind of canned meat. I also prefer organic foods over non-organic.  Needless to say a canned soup that contains a combination of meat, and vegetables is not high on my grocery list.  However, this week the cans of soup were on sale.  So, we bought a few... Another thing I don't do is eat soup for dinner.  My family eats hardy wholesome meals for dinner.  To me soup is more of a lunch item.  However, tonight we ate a can of corn chowder with our pasta dish.  I can't say that I enjoyed it, or didn't enjoy it.  The verdict is still out on that one.  But, I can say I do not like the idea of my children eating anything out of a can, so I do not foresee any more canned soup dinners in the future.

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Day 9 & 10: Celebrity Letter & Virtual March for Life

The past few days have been pretty busy.  Therefore, I have a couple posts to make up...

Day 9:  Celebrity Letter

First, I'd like to say that it's hard to find something "new" to do on a cold lazy day of being stuck in the house.  With that being said, here's day 9 of the journey...

Like most people, I have a slight fascination for those in the spot light, or "movie stars."  I like to hear about their humanitarian work, which celebrity supports which cause... But, I've never cared that much about the gossip aspect of their lives, or of Hollywood in general.  I've never had any desire to visit Hollywood, or meet a movie star.  With that being said, I've not really had a desire to write anyone in the spot light a letter.  Or, at least that was true until Brittany Murphy's death.  I always liked Brittany Murphy.  She was cute, and up beat.  The news of her death made me sad, and moved me to want to write her family a letter of condolence... 

I did not write Brittany Murphy's family the letter (yet, anyway).  However, on Wednesday I did write a letter to the members involved in a reality TV show that my husband, I, and even Rene enjoy watching... "Dog the Bounty Hunter."  Ok, laugh it up.  My family thinks it's funny that we like to watch this.  But, I really don't see anything to laugh about.  The show is inspiring.  Here you have ex-convicts going after the "bad" guy.  And, once they've captured the bad guy, they try to change him, and help him in the name of Christ.  Also, before each "hunt" they pray for their safely, and sometimes for help in changing the criminals' hearts.  The show also makes me realize how easy it is to get involved in drugs.  Just about every criminal that Dog and his crew catch is on drugs.  This terrifies me because every time a criminal is caught I think to myself "That's someone's baby."  So, thanks to Dog the Bounty Hunter, my children will be watched VERY closely as they grow and mature.  I always knew that I would be a very protective mother, like my own mother, but, watching Dog makes all of a mother's worries a reality. 

Writing a simple letter can bring extraordinary joy to someone's heart.  Maybe that person needs those kinds words... Maybe the only joy brought will be to yourself... Writing a letter can be very therapeutic..I encourage you to write a letter to someone today, and bring extraordinary happiness to either the recipient or to yourself.

Day 10:  Virtual March for Life

As apart of the Obama care plan, he wanted our tax money to go towards supporting abortions.  Obama is very pro abortion.  In fact after just three days in office Obama allowed federal tax dollars to flow to organizations that promote and provide abortions abroad. (for more info go to http://www.lifenews.com/) So, on Thursday I joined the virtual march for life.  I've always wanted to go to Washington and march, but since I have my little ones to take care of I did it online instead!  And, it was amazing how many new "marchers" joined every couple of minutes!  The number of virtual marchers got up to nearly 80,000 people.  It was so awesome to be able to be apart of something while being so far away from it!  While the march was going on I wrote an e-mail to congress, opposing the abortion plan.  It was absolutely extraordinary to able to have my voice be heard while playing dolls with my children. 

If you missed the March for life this year because you were not able to make it to Washington, you could always join the marches next year online!  Please pray for the millions of lives lost to abortion, and have a blessed, and extraordinary day!

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Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Day 8: Far Away Friend

I didn't get the chance to do the "new" thing that I had planned for yesterday.  Although, I do no not always get to do the planned thing, it seems that something always comes my way.  The other day I met a very nice woman from the UK by browsing through blogs.  Before talking with her via e-mail I'd never met anyone from the UK.  I did however, have a Japanese penpal for a short period of time in elementary school.  Things are so different now than they were when I was a child.  Back in the second or third grade I would have never imagined being able to meet someone simply by browsing a "blog".  Of course, I also had no idea of what a blog was. 

Talking with someone through e-mail  may not be considered something "extraordinary".  But, making a friend from a different country with only a few clicks most certainly is! 
(Sorry this post is so boring, read Day 7, or other's for something a little more exciting. And, although it may be boring it's still nice to connect with someone you've never met.)

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Day 7: Ice Swimming Turns into Tree Climbing



Yesterday I dug up my tiny black bikini, grabbed a fleece house coat, and a towel.  I then jumped into the Tahoe, and drove a block to the beach.  To my disappointment, the Bay was COMPLETELY frozen!  Inspired by the Polar Bear Plunge, or the Goose Bump Jump, as they call it around here I was going to take a dive in January.  Here, on the East coast the averages of the day were highs of 41 degrees, and lows of 25.  So, needless to say it would have been COLD!

Determined to do something new, or different today, I looked around the park located by our local beach... I saw nothing, but picnic tables, and trees.  So, I climbed a tree!  I hadn't done this since I was about seven, or eight years old. And, let me tell you that it is not as easy to climb a tree in your twenties as it is as a child!  I wore Birkenstock styled clogs to the beach, so my first attempts to get up the trunk of the tree failed.  I jumped back into the truck, went home, searched for my Puma's, and could not find them.  So, I ended up climbing a tree in a pair of shoes meant to keep you on a skate board, my Converse.  The Converse gave me hardly any traction so Mark lifted me up past the tree's trunk.  With one or two steps up the trunk, I was sitting on the first branch... This of course was not satisfying, so I climbed up to the next branch where I was now around ten feet above the ground.  To my five foot stature this felt more like twenty feet when looking down. 

This was SO much fun!  It sound boring, but, it was fun laughing at ourselves trying to climb the tree!  It was amazing how out of shape we were.  The resistance bands we use obviously haven't helped us that much.  I'd say the best part of the day would have been Mark being there with me.  Climbing the tree alone wouldn't have been fun... It would have been satisfying, once I had done it (I'm always very satisfied once I've accomplished something that seemed hard at the beginning).. But, it was nice having someone to share the laughs with... Mark, and my children.  Stephanie, and Rene enjoyed watching Mama and Daddy having fun.  They were giggling, and laughing right along with us. 

Although, climbing a tree may not be something that most people would consider to be  "extraordinary", having fun with someone that loves you while doing something as simple as climbing a tree most definitely is extraordinary!  Grab someone that loves you, and enjoy doing something simple that will fill your ears with laughter!  Have an awesome day!  God Bless!


Proverbs 15:13

A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of theheart the spirit is broken.

Pslams 126:2

Then was our mouth filled with laughter, and our tongue with singing:then said they among the heathen, The LORD hath done great things for them.

Luke 18:17
Verily I say unto you, Whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child shall in no wise enter therein.

Matthew 18:4-5

Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me.